Hi I'm a lady aged 37 yrs married with 3kids...2 years ago my marriage was falling apart my husband left me and the kids kunogara ne girlfriend this was after ndabata ma nude pictures in his phone yaanga apa mwana kuti atambise...Its difficult to erase those images in my brain.We fought that night and he packed a bag and left.
The relatives did not do much to try kumudzora saying kwaiva kutori ne mwana saka it's our blood and iye ati mukadzi mudiki ndiye waarikuda.This was a much younger lady than me 26 yrs if I'm not mistaken.Ndakamborwara that time with ulcers and my friend was there for me...
she started going kuma counselling sessions with me.About a year and a half zvaitika I Started seeing someone a very kind hearted divorcee who was very patient with me and willing to wait for me until I'm ready to get into an intimate relationship.
We would go on dates check on each other and all...Before the last year ended in August my husband came home and said I want my family back he pleaded with me and I just called his family to tell them kuti vadzoka.I really didn't care why he was back Honestly because I was experiencing a different kind of love and getting attention elsewhere...we were roommates which bothered him and led him to the discovery that I was dating someone else.Only then ndipo pakadaidzwa dare ndichitongeswa pakazobuda nyaya yekuti he found out through maDNA kuti mwana anga asiiri wake.
That day akabvunzwa kuti urikuda kusiya mukadzi here akati kwete his 3 brothers tried to convince him kuti andipe gupuro saying kana mukadzi atombodanana nemumwe munhu the union is over asi iye akati I want to fix my family.
Now my issue is ndakaona ma showing kuti achiri kutumira this lady mari akaita a transaction ye $500, $200 and another ye $120 recently pa phone and I didn't ask iniwo I'm still talking to that guy nothing serious but we talk every day and see each other kana ndiri flexible...
My question is we seem to be at peace staying under the same roof and getting up to our own business, is this how other people are living in their marriages is this sustainable? That said my kids seem happier and we are doing a good job playing happy home but there's no love between us, he came back for shelter it seems and i have accepted our living arrangement we are both in our 40s(over 45) tinochembedzana here or we are in denial...
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